How to transform yourself.
The first step to personal transformation is to decide what you want to create with focused intent.
Whenever we decide to change ourselves and subsequently change our lives, it is usually created by an inner voice or a feeling telling us to do so.
Focused Intent is the key to transforming yourself.
When you do that and you mean it, your intent will attract the experiences you need to achieve the personal transformation that you desire. Intent is stating something that I want or intend to do.
The experiences that you attract after you set your intention will often be ones that we would rather not be attracting into our lives. It will feel as though our life is “falling apart” but it is a transition, and you must stay the course in order for the transformation to occur.
It’s best to learn to go with your intuition during these times because your mind will not be much help to you. If you’re having trouble accessing your intuition during these times find a friend who has strong intuitive abilities to help guide you.
Everything Is Energy
Remember that everything is energy and what you attract into your life is based on your energetic vibration at the moment. As you transform yourself, your vibrational energy will change, and so will things in your life that is not an energetic match for the new you.
This could mean a change in your job, your geographic location, relationships, wealth, and even your health.
When you set your intention attraction will begin almost immediately. I remember several years ago I was interested in getting a job. My intent was to attract a job that was flexible, had unlimited income potential, and wouldn’t require me to spend eight or nine hours in a building all day or working my ass off doing something physical with low pay.
Later that day I was at Home Depot getting some supplies and this man approaches me and starts making small talk like I knew him. My intuition was sending me signals but I ignored it in favor of being polite. Well after a couple of minutes of small talk from this guy he begins to ask me what I do for a living.
I told him that I was presently looking for a new career and that I was submitting applications daily. Well this guy happened to be a recruiter who was on a scouting mission looking for potential initiates into his MLM cult.
I agreed to an an interview/ sales pitch with his mentor. After meeting up at their office and seeing the power point presentation on their computer and getting a free health bar and drink I had enough.
I decided not to take the job because I followed my intuition. A year later I saw this same guy at Borders Book store trying to recruit some more suckers.
I met the recruiter because our sub-conscious was on a similar wavelength. I was setting my intention for a job and he set his intention for people that are interested in a job. This is how all Synchronicities occur.
Another point to this story is that just because something seems synchronisitic doesn’t mean that it is meant to be . You must develop some discernment and go with what your intuition tells you despite what your own mind might say.
I wasn’t upset that I attracted this experience because it was part of the journey. I have learned to not be at war with the journey because it is a necessary part of the process. Go with the flow as the saying goes.
All Creation Starts In The Metaphysical Universe
Creation doesn’t start in the physical world or even in the mind, it starts within. This is known as your “inner-self’ or subconscious which is multi-dimensional in nature. Everything that is present in our physical world is projected from and controlled in the Metaphysical Universe.
The sub-conscious operates in the realms of frequency the same as the Metaphysical Universe.
For my fellow bloggers reading this, it would be similar to using the Word Press Administration panel (sub-conscious/Metaphysical Universe) to create , control, and manage your blog. The physical creation would be your site that is visible on the web. But the real work is done at the admin panel.
Removing Limiting Beliefs To Transform
The sub-conscious is also the place that “real” change will occur in ourselves. When we are able to remove or delete a limiting belief, which resides in our sub-conscious, our entire life experience will transform.
When enough individuals remove limiting beliefs from their sub-conscious a collective shift will occur in humanity. This is why personal development is so critical for all of us. Personal development is not a physical product that you can buy or a pill that you can take. It is real work that is first done on the sub-conscious level and then made manifest into reality.
Control is a big issue in our society these days. If you want to experience real control, start with your sub-conscious.
One last note on personal transformation. It may not come to you the way that you would like it to. In fact in may come to you disguised as your biggest nightmare. I can look back at many, many personal experiences that were frightening and scary and yet they were exactly what was needed in order to transform myself.
The problem that many experience with personal transformation is the “change” in one’s life. Yes your life experience will become altered, and yes your “little ego” will begin to shudder in despair as these changes take place. But don’t fret because your consciousness will know that what is happening is happening for a reason, and it is in your own best interest; even though the little ego mind will not be able to see it that way.
The key to remember here is to “live life” and not let life live you. Take responsibility for what happens to you and in doing so you will take control of your life. Learn to become a master manifester and create the life of your dreams while changing yourself at the same time.
Manifest the life of your dreams through personal transformation
When we learn how to consciously manifest things, people and events into our lives we feel more confident and in control of our lives. Below are three simple tips for doing exactly that.
Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks, “Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you?” Well, if the child goes on and on asking, the police officer can’t even give an answer, right?
Well, it’s the same thing with your mind. If the only thing your mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe — which is trying to respond — can’t give you a single thing because you’re not allowing yourself to receive!
So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by running around person to person begging for riches, and then wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: It’s because you’re running away too fast for them before they can even reach for their wallets).
Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it is you asked for) when the time is right.
Receiving takes time.
Sadly, many people give up just a couple of steps before the finish line because they’ve decided that if it’s not working by now, it’s never going to work at all. Worse still are those who throw in more and more energy because they think that with more resources, the results will come faster.
This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in 1 month. You also can’t bake cookies in half the time by doubling the temperature. You’ll incinerate those cookies to ashes!
In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it.
So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you cannot change the natural development time.
If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.
Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You also need to guidance on how to do it, and the role models to look up to.
Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the “be all and end all” solution. Well, it’s NOT. “The Secret” is just a small portion. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole answer.
Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself with fried foods and cheesecakes).
So seek and be hungry for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be amongst people or communities where you can support each other, learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have found.
While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service, it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!
Category: Personal Growth