“Fear can be good when you’re walking past an alley at night or when you need to check the locks on your doors before you go to bed, but it’s not good when you have a goal and you’re fearful of obstacles.
We often get trapped by our fears, but anyone who has had success has failed before.” – Queen Latifah
How many fears are you carrying around that are not yours? All fears except loud noises and falling down do not belong to you, so let them go. Holding on to something that is not yours is theft.
Fear based beliefs are mind viruses that need removing.
Most of your fears were pressed upon you in childhood.
Don’t talk to strangers, don’t eat your candy until I go through it (Halloween), don’t play in the street, wait 30 minutes before swimming, and 50 million other mind viruses that slow down your ability to flow through life with ease and comfort.
Sure, life has its hiccups, you make mistakes, but you learn from them too. I’ve burned myself on my stove many times, but I don’t have a fear or aversion to stoves. I just exercise some caution instead.
The quickest way to know when something does not belong to you is through feeling. If the thought of doing something causes you to feel unbalanced or out of alignment with your true self, then it doesn’t belong to you.
You see, it’s not the act itself that causes fear, but your beliefs about the act. Fears of public speaking, going on an adventure to a foreign land, or just trying something new may cause feelings of unease in your body.
Uneasy feelings represent unconscious beliefs that control your decisions, and what you are willing to try, and not try, and with whom.
As many of you reading this post know, our planet and everything in our Universe is going through a change, an upgrade of consciousness. With this upgrade comes much conflict and strife unless we are prepared to deal with it.
Now more than ever we have the ability to make solid choices about the people we allow in our lives. I found a resource from Tom Kenyon’s blog that explains exactly how to handle people and situations you might not be sure about.
The Triune Force
From Tom Kenyon’s site © 2012 Tom Kenyon All Rights Reserved www.tomkenyon.com
If you were to imagine a triangle and on the left corner of the triangle was attraction and on the right side of the triangle was repulsion, then the point above these two extremes is the Triune Force.
It is a mental perspective that has spiritual attributes. It allows you to float above the situation and view it from multiple perspectives.
If, for instance, you are attracted to a person and surrender to that attraction without allowing access to signs and information about that person then you have put yourself in a precarious position.
But by not identifying with the attraction you “float up” to the Triune Force and are free to observe behaviors that may signal the inappropriateness or dangerous nature of a relationship with that person.
Likewise, if you are repulsed by a person or situation the Triune Force allows you to “float above” and dis-identify with the repulsion, and while you are in this dis-identification you are free to see other levels involved.
It could be that this person or situation is toxic to you, or it could be that this person or situation is a mirror reflecting back to you something you do not like in yourself.
By momentarily suspending your identification with either attraction or repulsion you are able to see more clearly and access information about the person or situation from an expanded perspective.
Knowledge is power, and the Triune Force gives you access to the innate powers of clarity.
So our suggestion in this time of increased human polarization and Time Acceleration is to watch yourself. When you fall into attraction, pause for a moment.
Step away from your identification with the attraction. Float up above it, as it were, and engage the Triune Force.
You do this so that you enter the relationship, whether it be with a person or a situation, with open eyes.
If you are repulsed by a person or a situation, pause for a moment and dis-identify with your distaste for the person or situation.
Float above the situation or person, as it were, and engage the Triune Force to see more deeply—to sense with greater clarity—if this person or situation is toxic, or if it is a mirror for something in yourself that you need to transform.
As you enter more deeply into the polarization phase of planetary assent, the Triune Force can greatly assist you as you pass through this difficult period of increased personal, interpersonal and collective conflict.
© 2012 Tom Kenyon All Rights Reserved www.tomkenyon.com
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You can read the rest of this powerful post over at Tom Kenyon’s site.